How to Live Longer

Let’s not beat around the bush. I think most of us would to do some fairly shady stuff if it was guaranteed we could live longer – and healthier. I don’t know about you but hitting midlife brought my mortality into sharper focus! I never thought much about my age….until I realised that I am very likely half way through my life…and the rest!!!

But, ever the optimist, I just look at it as the perfect time to take control and give myself the best chance not just to add years. But more importantly – to make sure those years are healthy, vibrant, and full of energy.

Many of the habits proven to increase longevity are inspired by the world’s Blue Zones. These are regions in the World with the most people living (and thriving!) past 100. The Blue Zones include areas like Okinawa (Japan), Sardinia (Italy), and Nicoya (Costa Rica). The key to their longevity? Simple, everyday habits that promote health and well-being over the long term.

So to help you add a few more healthy years, here are some science-backed lifestyle habits that will have you running a mock for a few decades yet!!! And some of them aren’t as obvious as you might think.

1. Build Strong Social Connections: Add 7 Years

7 years!!! Yes – number one on the list isn’t diet or exercise as you might have expected…it’s friendship! A study from Brigham Young University found that people with strong social ties had a 50% higher survival rate, which could translate to up to 7 extra years of life. Social connections help reduce stress, improve mental health, and even encourage healthier habits, making it one of the most enjoyable ways to live longer and better.

Blue Zones place a huge emphasis on community, with people engaging in regular social activities and staying connected to their friends and families.

Pro Tip: Stay connected by making time for friends and family, joining clubs, or finding new ways to engage with your community.

2. Eat a Plant-Forward Diet: Add 4-5 Years

What you put on your plate plays a huge role in how long you live—and more importantly, how well you feel while you’re living it. Research published in PLOS Medicine found that eating a plant-forward diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains can extend life expectancy by 4-5 years. A diet packed with fibre and antioxidants reduces the risk of chronic diseases like heart disease, cancer, and diabetes, giving you more energy to enjoy the good stuff in life.

In Blue Zones, the diet is predominantly plant-based, with legumes, vegetables, and whole grains being staples. This has been shown to promote long-term health and vitality.

Pro Tip: You don’t have to go fully vegetarian—just make sure plants are the stars of most meals!

3. Stress Less, Live More: Add 3-5 Years

Chronic stress is a known life-shortener, increasing your risk of heart disease, anxiety, and depression. But the good news? Managing your stress could add 3-5 years to your life! Research published in Health Psychology shows that techniques like yoga, meditation, and mindfulness can help lower blood pressure, improve emotional well-being, and protect your heart.

In Blue Zones, people take time to relax and unwind, often through prayer, meditation, or simply enjoying the present moment with loved ones.

Pro Tip: Start small—try 10 minutes of deep breathing or meditation daily to feel the benefits. For more effective tips for inducing relaxation quickly and simply head to my blog ‘Vagus Nerve Stimulation: A Game Changer for Menopause Symptoms’

4. Move Daily: Add 3-4.5 Years

You don’t need to run marathons to add years to your life. Research from Harvard shows that just 30 minutes of moderate exercise, like walking, can reduce your mortality risk by up to 30%, potentially giving you an extra 3-4.5 years of life. But it’s not just about quantity; quality matters too. Regular movement keeps your heart healthy, your muscles strong, and your mind sharp, helping you feel younger as you age.

In Blue Zones, movement is naturally integrated into daily life, with people walking, gardening, or working outdoors well into their later years. To read more about THE most important type of movement whilst we age you can read my blog ‘Exercise in Menopause and Beyond: Finding What Works for You’

Pro Tip: Find something you enjoy, whether it’s a brisk daily walk, yoga, or even dancing around your kitchen!

Bonus Tip: Choose a Sport that Adds Years to Your Life

If you’re looking for fun and fitness, specific sports have been shown to boost longevity in a BIG way:

  • Tennis: Adds 9.7 years (Danish cohort study)
  • Badminton: Adds 6.2 years (Danish cohort study)
  • Soccer: Adds 4.7 years (Copenhagen City Heart Study)
  • Cycling: Adds 3.7 years (British Medical Journal)
  • Swimming: Adds 3.4 years (International Journal of Aquatic Research and Education)
  • Running: Adds 3.2 years (Progress in Cardiovascular Diseases)
  • Yoga ?: Adds 1.8 years (The Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine)

5. Prioritise Sleep: Add 2 Years

When life gets busy, sleep is often the first thing to go. But it’s one of the most important tools for extending your lifespan. A study in the Journal of the American Heart Association found that getting 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night can add up to 2 years to your life. Sleep helps reduce your risk of heart disease, strengthens your immune system, and supports mental clarity. So you can feel more energised and resilient as you age.

In Blue Zones, the pace of life is often slower, with many people embracing afternoon naps and following natural sleep cycles, leading to better long-term health.

Pro Tip: Create a relaxing bedtime routine and stick to a consistent sleep schedule to make sure you’re getting those precious Zzzs.

I hop this blog highlights what I say time and time again. Living well and adding years to your life doesn’t require complicated, expensive and drastic changes. Start small, make daily movement a priority, eat more plants, sleep well, connect with others, and manage your stress. Consistency is key! These simple lifestyle habits will help you not only live longer but live healthier, more vibrant years.

By looking at the practices of people in the Blue Zones, we see how a mix of daily movement, strong social bonds, stress reduction, and plant-rich diets are the recipe for a long, fulfilling life.

If you like what you’ve read and want more practical information and tips on nutrition, lifestyle and mindset for midlife women then please follow me at motherflushingmidlife at the social links below.And I’d love to work with you if you need some support with your physical and emotional health at midlife or you’re struggling with emotional or binge eating. Simply pop to the coaching tab at the top of my website and see which service might suit you best – or book in for a free 30 minute clarity coaching call and we can chat about it over a nice cup of something hot. And of course if anyone you know might benefit from my content, let them know where to find me x

About me

Hi, I’m Suzanne, midlifer, Coach, Nutritional Therapist and emotional and binge eating specialist.


As a midlife and menopause coach I work with women ready to prioritise their needs, be proactive with their wellbeing and navigate towards the bright and vibrant future they deserve.

30 minutes of focused coaching to identify your main coaching goals and provide you with 1-2 practical steps to help you meet them.

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